Early Exit EXPLORER

I took another trip—but this time, it was a trip back home. I came back to the States for about a month to see family and take care of a few things before heading back out to continue traveling. Sitting back and reflecting on the time I spent abroad, I realized I learned—or maybe re-learned—several important lessons about life, travel, and myself.

1. Solo traveling is an experience everyone should have.

Even if it’s only for a few months, solo travel teaches you so much about who you are. You’re on your own time, your own schedule, with no one else to consider but yourself. There’s a level of freedom that’s hard to explain unless you’ve experienced it. You learn how to be comfortable alone, how to trust yourself, and how to move through the world independently. It’s challenging at times, but the growth is worth it.

2. Learn the language of wherever you are—even just the basics.

This makes a huge difference. Knowing a few key phrases can make your trip far more comfortable and enjoyable. Locals are usually more open and welcoming when they see you making an effort to speak their language. You’d be surprised how many doors can open simply because people feel more comfortable around you. Even basic communication can lead to better experiences, better connections, and fewer misunderstandings.

3. Meet people, even if you’re an introvert.

As an introvert, I know how hard this can be—but it’s worth pushing yourself. Your trip will easily be five times better when you connect with others. Some of my best experiences in Colombia and Brazil came from friendships I made along the way. You never know who you’ll meet—people from all walks of life, many of whom are also traveling full-time and living a more relaxed lifestyle. Most travelers are open, easygoing, and looking to connect, which actually makes meeting people easier than you’d expect.

4. Develop a routine.

Yes, traveling is fun, but without some structure, boredom and chaos can creep in fast. Find ways to stay grounded—go to the gym, pick up a hobby, plan out your days, or create small daily goals. From what I’ve seen, time moves faster and more smoothly when you have a routine. There will still be moments of boredom, and that’s normal, but those phases usually pass quickly when you stay intentional with your time.

5. Do your research—seriously, DO YOUR RESEARCH.

I can’t stress this enough. Don’t rely solely on social media—it often paints an unrealistic picture. Research everything: weather, language, crime rates, currency, cost of living, and which areas are safer or more convenient to live in. Brazil really taught me how important location is. Use Google, ChatGPT, and—most importantly—talk to people who have been there or are currently living there. Firsthand experience will always give you the most accurate and up-to-date information.

6. Stay in your lane financially.

Living overseas can be fun, but it can also get expensive quickly if you’re not careful. I’ve met people from all kinds of backgrounds—lawyers, ex-military, retired federal workers, influencers, and people who simply decided to leave and make it work. Hanging out with them can be fun, but if you’re not paying attention, you can easily dig yourself into a financial hole. Everyone’s financial situation is different, so it’s important to stay disciplined and not try to keep up with someone else’s lifestyle.

7. Be humble and always stay aware.

Remember—you’re an American, and many countries are very different from the U.S. I’ll be blunt: Americans are spoiled compared to much of the world. Our way of life stands out, and because of that, you may be viewed as a wealthy or easy target. People may try to take advantage of you, and that’s just reality. Always be aware of your surroundings, even when you’re out with friends. I’ve heard stories of people being robbed or drugged—some of them had been living in those countries for years. You can never get too comfortable. Not everyone has bad intentions, but it’s important to stay alert and protect yourself.

For now, I’ll be in the States for about a month before I’m back on a plane heading to my next destination. I don’t know where I’m going yet, but I’m sure it’ll be another adventure. Since I won’t be traveling during this month, there may be fewer posts—but once it’s time to leave again, the journey continues.